I do not think we need to change the definition of marriage here in America or California to be tolerant of "alternate" life styles. We can be tolerant of alternate lifestyles with out changing the definition of marriage. Now let me be clear when I say tolerant I do not me I approve of their choice to live the way they do. They are living in sin and while they may not want me to I still pray for them.
God has given man over to his evil desires before, we must pray he will not do it again.